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Tuesday, January 10, 2006
  Complicated Human Relationships

"The buZzing bEe" & I were chatting over MSN last night till like 3am.

He has his story, Bel has his story, but I have learnt over years of handling human relationship that it's always important to stay in the neutral position and not take sides. There is no definite who's right and wrong. It still bows down to personal perception towards the issue and the in build character the person has. What we can do and help as friends is always to lend a listening ear. Save the advices as some advices may turn out to be disasterous & end up complicating issues further, leading into sour relationships.

But I still think he's irritating somehow. Maybe it's the way he looks or the way he speaks or both combined together. I strongly think is BOTH. Anyway, men are from MARS, and women are from Venus, it's almost impossibly to really understand them.

Everyday is a learning day, we gain new knowledge, new wisdom to become a better person ultimately. I believe being humble & sincere is the key in establishing good human relationships. Lacking either of each is most likely to result in dislike by another person.

The world can never evolve around us. It's important to learn to embrace changes and accept the person as he is. Each & everyone has their strengths and weakness but it is definitely not up to us to judge anyone. We have our flaws as well. Understanding the other and bringing out their strengths is important. Advice on weakness but don't expect that person to change just for you. It was never in build in the law of nature that we can change a person. Not even god can change us.

As we aged, get involved in working in society and dealing with people, I hope what my views on human relationships can help or guide my friends when they meet up with difficulties. These are words of wisdom gained from my own personal experiences & people around me.

We have only 1 life and it's impossible to know everything or learn everything through self experiences. Self experiencing may be the best way to understand how things work, but it is definitely the toughest and hurtful experience an individual can go through.

But these complicated emotions of what humans have and animals don't have is what makes human beings more superior and beautiful to interact with... =)

4:20 PM |