Blogs are so opened that I finally found password scripts to protect my own privacy.

My blog is only for my close friends, not for some Tom, Dick or Harry that I don't even know. Or even if I know, it's only courtesy that you people share ur own blog than keep barging into other people's life story. My life ain't the Thruman show. Catch a movie n chill out somewhere. KPOs!

Dear Mei, sorry cause u so much disruptance & nuisance from my blog. Really appreciate the frankness from you. Friends are meant to be mean, straightforward in the most positive ways. That's what makes you special. Same as to you Sharon...

I'm not wrong to give a personal opinion, but I'm wrong to give and affect another's life. Must everything be so complicated and calculative? Nevermind... whatever...I can't control another's mouth, nor their thoughts. I don't even know them or even if I do they're not somebody to me.

As my dad like to quote:"If you think you're not my daughter I bother to talk to you? dream on!"

So same as to my friends:"If you think you're not one of the many friends I treasure, I bother to talk and share things with you? Dream on... U can wait till the sun rises from the west."

Mei was saying everyone can be friends. This I disagree. Friends must screen. As the chinese sayings goes "Jin Zhu Zhe Ci, Jin Mo Zhe Hei" If we don't choose our friends carefully, the one on the losing end is us.

It's not about class, nor education level. It's about sincerity. We can feel the sincere-ness from the person. They way they speak, the way they present themselves.

So in-sincere people gets red card from me...

Ultimately, we were born with nothing, we leave with nothing. Friends are just passing clouds. They come they go. However, confidantes or "Hong Yan Zhi Ji" are suns who brighten your lives and share their lifes with you. They are there to stay; They are there to keep a watchful eye on you; They are there when you need them; They will be there if there isn't betrayal.

This is the purpose of my blog. For confidantes not passing clouds.

Every action brings cost & consequeces. Learning to admit required huge amounts of courage, but that is what makes one a better person.

Perhaps I'm too straightforward a person that makes many dislike, disagree or shun me for they fear me. I speak the truth to all, for the truth is the most hurting yet most sincere.

I speak opinions from my heart, which may sound horrifying to the person, but it's my way of showing my love, care & concern.

Most importantly, my opinions are reserved for myself, to serve as a guide. Take it or leave it, no hard feelings should be involved.

Dear Mei, true friends support and learn not to question. For questioning brings more questions and doubts. Understanding that each one is an individual, respecting their values, choices and lastly provide the utmost support they need is the least a friend can do.

To some, this following may sound pessimistic; to some, it may sound logical; to some, it may be words of wisdom. This is what I would like to share:

+=::To possess or not, we came naked & we shall leave naked. To whom that leaves our lifes, it's just another stage and process that no one is able to prevent. The change of human heart is constant that no one have a say. We'll still need to work, live, eat, breathe till the last day of our lives. Though it may sound lonely, but this is life... ::=+

So... if you can understand and accept me, my flaws, my virtues, my everything and develope a close friendship to become a confidante, I'll like to say a big thank you.

If you don't, then just leave, for it only means you have not aquired enough wisdom to share what I'm sharing. Wisdom could only be gain if one is humble...