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Saturday, July 26, 2008
  25 July 08 Day of Reminise

Sighz, my grandma of 81 years supposingly going 82 this year passed on...

It's sad but also a relieve. Everytime when someone passes on, there's always a new gain in the outlook of life. Hope this event will knock some sense into my cousin's head who still wants to go UK and study at the expense of my uncle. Haiz, some people...

At least my grandma doesn't have to suffer with those tubes anymore.

Thank you Fabs! Very much. He's very sweet to make an effort to take half day leave and come accompany me upon receiving the news in the morning. Loving you is not wasted... hahaha

But ur family damn bad lo, chase me out for 1 week cause of some superstitious stuff. Wa lau, Catholics or wan follow Chinese Customs? Decide on 1 lo. 没有两全其美的。

So if they have no regards for people's feelings at the point of a close kin decease, I can also show no sympathy nor empathy when your side got decease in the future hor?? I can like stupid wildfully set a rule to say I don't see you for 1 month, 1 year etc cause it's my chinese customs lo.
It's really pissing and just put yourself in my shoes. How will you feel when the grandma who brought you up and is like a 2nd mother to you decease and the boyfriend family so no empathy say because of some stupid customs dun let me into the house one? If I did it to you, what will you think of my family? Seriously I rather don't marry you and just remain as we are. This kind of family I not interested to be part of it. I mean if I have my son or daughter who have relationship like us, I'll be understanding enough and forgo customs, cause I SERIOUSLY EMPATHIZE & UNDERSTAND the feeling of how terrible a next of kin decease. There are times when people need a pillar of support and your family's stupid customs throws me off and your absence makes me doubt my place in your heart. I feel sad. At least I'm frank and trueful to say what I feel out LOUD.

Next time if your dad or mum died then I don't offer you pillar of support and deny you to see me for a week, I see if you'll feel the same as I feel now.

Sighz, such things just make me feel that your family is flinestone family... old fashion. haiz...

Am very happy that meow wanted to come but can't cause she's sick and for once, I was quite shocked cause I thought she's crying and gio bully her or something.

Thanks Jeremy and my other teachers who came to offer their condolenses plus understanding parents and students who empathize my situation to let me cancel the lessons cause I do feel bad cancelling lessons.

This is a day before my dad's bdae on the 26th July 08. so at least she didn't pass on on his bdae which I think will make my dad feel worst.

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