Sunday, June 07, 2009
so read the previous post before this k...
And what happened after was I called fabian that day to tell him what's going on. Then,
Saturday 6 June 2009 1500hrs
Fabian described to me that he scolded his mum so badly that she cried and she shouted back "I feel like SLAPPING YOU NOW!"
So Fabian told her:"Mummy, if slapping me makes you feel better, then do it." (Takes off spects, waiting to be slapped)
His mother cried more badly and he also scolded his dad and almost made his dad cry.
Upon hearing these, I laughed out so bloody loud. Then slowly, Fabian blurt out more as follows:
1) My mum said you are bad and you think you're very smart. All those who come out of SAP school think they're very smart.
me: so did you ask her in what sense was I bad and why I think I'm very smart? Eventhough I do admit that yes I am smart because I am.
2) She couldn't answer, she just say you are bad.
3) She says Le'Rain is DEFINITELY going to LEAVE you
me: oh, so she knows me better than you do and she cannot even say why am I bad.
4) So I had to tell her that you were the one who scold me for being rude everytime and she was like "sure anot?"
me: whatever, I'm bad. and I'm leaving you for sure
5) She says I don't give her enough money. So to shut her up, I had to scold sense into her that I am giving in percentage more than my brothers because I'm earning lesser.
6) I told her I'm going to NY you know what she do?
me: what? tell me quick.
7) She cried out laugh and say, "You don't CARE for the family! There's H1N1 and you still want to go."
me: challenge their so call faith that if god wants me to die, I shall die. Let them know it is nothing to be so scare about and die die la. nothing to lose what.
8) Dad came into the picture so I had to explain about the calculated risk taken. They still didn't understand, I scolded them more.
9) I told my mother, "You don't like Le'Rain to stay here because we're not married, ok I will talk to her and You think she doesn't want to go home ah?"
Then all the big quarrels with tears and like action slapping and the dad trying to pacify the mum with baby photos, fabian and I had to stay out till midnight to avoid seeing two charcoal faces when we return.
Today before we left, Fabian felt bad and was nice to talk to his mum yet his mum told him off sternly, "You BETTER SELF QUARANTINE FOR 1 WEEK AND DON'T COME BACK. i am serious and there are other matters to think about."
As usual, in the cab on the way to my place then airport, Fabian was shocked to find out that his mum said the last sentence cause he didn't hear.
So I told him, do you know if I'm your best female companion and not your girlfriend, I'll tell you that luckily I'm not your girlfriend cause I will never ever want to have such a bitchy MIL. Fabian looked at me and laughed, he understands...
Seriously, I will never be stupid enough to land myself a MIL like that learning from meow. I'm not easy to be triffed with especially when taking to the pro LKYs and pious Catholics who says I must get married in a Catholic church because catholics cannot step into Christian churches. WTF, CCB, TLLM.
I don't even mind just getting married by the road cause it's a stupid paper that doesn't signify anything.
I'm very lucky not to have a mother. Cause if I have one like his, I'll walk out of the house and not turn back.
A Kampong woman will remain a kampong woman no matter how literate she is. There's so much flaws of hers to spit out than mine and she dares to swear her concious by her mother mary and god to criticise I am a bad person.
God forgive me for all these written anger cause it is the only way that I'll feel better writing out loud.
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